well, siempre dapat yung kausap mo is online too so he can watch YOUR message ON TIME (coz basically, hindi lang naman CGURO kau ang gagamit ng SB)... thats the purpose of a shoutbox... you know, people chatting?.. (though siempre my rules din for flooding, profanities, etc.)... what im after were for URGENT msgs to be known by the person your talkin' to RIGHT AT THAT TIME... and vice versa... but in anyway mater, i respect you for that, if you want your message to be discreet, then PM monalang cguro ung kausap mo...
anyway, its just my opinion, chief... thanks for the comment...