well,
for sure they have a point and they must be coming from somewhere,
since 12" snares are really high in pitch or tones,
but you see,
we play in the church and sad to say that our sound system is incapable of delivering our music to the congregation clearly,
and there's no mic available for the drums and our place is narrow and long,
it means that the sound from the stage will have to travel all the way to the back of our church, making it audible to at least 250 people which is really impossible for an acoustic drum set alone.
that's why i thought that since i cant please everybody, i might as well at least please the musicians around me,
which is contrary to what's happening right now,
although not all my bandmates have the same comments, i haven't heard anything from our band leader regarding that matter and i find the 14" snare that comes with the drum set to be too loud for me, making my playing messed up and it's quite annoying for me....
and one more thing since we play in the church,
we dont play rock songs too much,
it's much more of easy listening, for me at least...
that's why i arrived at the idea of changing my cheap lazer heads with evans hoping that it will improve the way my snare sounds...
the problem is, i'm not sure what head is appropriate for me....