just want to add up another good reason to buy E-drums,
1. portability (depends on the model)
2. easy to play along tracks
3. the features of COACH (if the edrums have it) I mean c'mon it can tell you accurately how bad or good your timing is.
Now if your issue is the dynamics and "play feel", I guess you just have to play acoustic drums if you have chances. I practice with E-drums (roland td4kp) and during our rehearsal and worship night I use acoustic. If I may share my experience, practicing rudiments with practice pad feels different with applying it to acoustic snare, toms, cymbals etc. But the thing is I gotta practice. So my point is, E-drums is a great practice source since you have issues with your neighbor when you play on you acoustic. Because in the end, practice with E-drums is a LOT better with no practice at all.