-alcohol tends to amplify my particular 'trip' at the moment, so when i'm attacked by stage fright before going on stage... well u do the math...
there's no substitute for good ol practice. knowing your piece inside out, upside down or whatever is still best. that in part can make you relax and enjoy the gig.
- assuming na hindi battle of the bands ung gig, hindi na sya competition kung sino ung pinakamagaling na gitarista or whatever. u go on stage to play ur stuff , not showboat ur 200bpm na shredding na parang uubusin mo na yung natitira nating kagubatan or kung anuman ung equivalent sa yong particular music genre at tignan kung kaya ring gawin ng ibang gitarista ung ginawa mo. gaano karaming gitarista ba ang nanonood sayo na malalaman bawat piraso ng mali mo? sa mga rock production mga 5 to 10 assuming na tatambay silang lahat habang nasa stage ka. ung ibang mga nauna, maaring lasing na, kausap ung girlfriend/ bandmates/etc. or umuwi na. sa variety naman most probabaly e wala kung single band kayo at isa kung may kaalternate kayo. ikumpara mo sa dami ng 'ordinary guest', ang dami diba?
-help ur band mates relax!
kung kinakabahan ka, mararamdaman un ng mga kasama mo and worse, maaring mahahawa sila! mag small talk kayo. stuff na walang kinalaman sa stage. joke and laugh around... na bibitbit sa stage ung happy thoughts nyo at nakikita rin ng audience sa mga mukha ng members.
-i should add that you should be comfortable with your bandmates. ung tipong may respeto kayo sa strengths and weaknesses ng isat isa (nobody's perfect) at united kayo sa iisang goal.
paano ka marerelax/enjoy kung exaj ung pagka-kritiko ng sarili mong kabanda?
well i hope this stuff helps you the same way this stuff helped me.