The concept sounds fairly simple but constructing it can be quite daunting for a beginner (I'm assuming that you know very little about electronics). If I'm not mistaken, your requirement is a switch system with two (2) states, A or B, that will connect amplifier peripherals (guitar & effects) to either switch state simultaneously. You can do it with a 3PDT switch or a 4PDT (difficult to find) where you can include LED switch state indicator. If you're on a tight budget, you can even use a 2-position rotary switch but you would have to bend down to switch states. I can draw up a schematic diagram for you but I don't know how to use CAD. I'm also quite busy at the moment and I'm here just to follow up on this thread. Why don't you ask someone to make the custom switch for you. This is a very easy project.
Or we can expand your idea so that you can choose which input preamp of your amplifiers to use, return to your effects and have the option to send the output to the either amplifier. This will require 2 DPDT switches, which is actually a lot cheaper than using one 3PDT switch. Any custom pedal maker can make this for you.