a friend suggested to me that i use a DI box enable the pad to make the signal a little less hot. so i did. i bought a DI box and used it, and enabled both pads, thereby reducing the signal from the subwoofer by 40 dB.
well, to make a long story short, he was right. this indeed solved the gain problem.
there's alot of hiss though. but you can use a lowpass filter to elimininate all the hiss. and it really doesn't matter, you only need the low frequencies anyway.
be careful with your studio monitors dudes.