Specifically sa mga underground bands po dito na laging may mga kasabay na MARAMING banda...
I dont do gigs, kasi newbie lng ako at ung drumming for me is just as a hobby. Nevertheless, I do understand your point. I myself is a bit reluctant when it comes to "borrowing" issue. Most of the times those who borrow does not take good care of your things. I know, hindi lahat, pero karamihan ganun,
BUT I am not sure regarding the drumming/musicians world.
My experience was based on my drawing instruments, other household and DIY tools. Minsan di pa talga isasauli.
Also, if you are not familiar with the person, would you borrow his things? I would admire a person's guts if he can pull that act of borrowing from a stranger. I know its sharing, but i believe its to be done with in a certain circle of friends or perhaps if it is in an EB, where in the aim is to really share your knowledge and experience, but in gigs, i cant say that i will. I guess only to those whom I know could take care of my things.