BTW, I just got a PM from a very reliable source/friend with actual experience na nagoyo siya ni Tom. I asked him to share his chilling story, pero it's really up to him. It might help other forumites.
We might have received the same PM. If so, I would not consider that panggogoyo though -- naku, heto na naman tayo sa semantics...
Anyway, ang gist (cleaned up to protect the forum member's identity) is that the forum member had something to sell, pumunta siya kay Tom, ang daming hinirit ni Tom about his (seller's) item (keso hindi na daw original, etc.), forum member believed Tom, forum member agreed to trade his item with a few not-so-cool items, forum member had seller's remorse soon after that and wanted his stuff back, ayaw na ni Tom, end of story.
Sayang nga na nabitawan ng forum member yung item niya, but in the end, kusa siyang pumayag sa deal. Nobody put a gun to his head and "made" him accept the deal. After walking away with your end of the deal pero wala namang usapan na puwedeng "return/exchange", you can't expect the other party to be willing to call the deal off just because you want to right?
Tom is a businessman... he is NOT there to be your friend. Guys, keep that in mind. Maybe he is a friend to others, but if you're not one of them, don't expect to be treated like one. As a buyer, siyempre he'll say whatever he needs to say to convince you to sell your stuffs este stuff to him. But he's acting in a way that's no different from how other people or institutions act.
Now... back to semantics...
For me:
- Ang panggogoyo as a buyer would be if he did things like say he'll pay you X amount in 1 week tapos di siya nagbayad. Or he agrees to an amount, and then backs out when you meet and are ready to trade goods. Or issues bouncing checks.
- Ang panggogoyo as a seller would be if he did things like say he's selling you a 1965 guitar tapos 1985 pala. Or say that the guitar has had no repairs eh yun pala nakailang balik na kina Arie, Jon, Jun, Max, at kung sino-sino pa. Or say na all-original parts tapos galing Raon na pala ang iba.
Thoughts?