agree ako dito lalo na sa number 6... ahihihi
wala (pa) naman akong nabubuntis ah...
but here's my take on the topic...
1. attitude problems. this covers dictators, latecomers, members who always expect to be adjusted to without adjusting to the others (can't put that anymore succinctly), musical elitists, etc.
2. lineup changes. wala tayo sa 'tate where it doesn't take long for someone to step in and make himself/herself at home with the band. sa atin, mas focused tayo sa bonding element ng pagbabanda, at pag may isang member na nawala sa banda, mahirap nang ibalik ang momentum. in many cases, pag may isang kumalas sa banda, the others think disbanding is the best, and only option...
3. drugs. hard drugs, not marijuana. need i say more?
4. babae. this covers girlfriends/wives who don't let their boyfriends/husbands play music, girlfriends/wives who take up most of the time of bandmembers, and sometimes, di pa nga gf o misis, kundi other woman. little wonder why "yoko ono" is a universal term for a woman who destroys a band...
5. work, especially call center work. paiba-iba ang shift, pahirapan magfile ng leave, and the very fact that this is usually a nightshift job. i work in a BPO but i always advise bandmates looking for a career change to make call center work a last option.
6. musical burnout. suddenly the loudest metal band in the neighborhood wants to go the tugtog-pera route and play pop and R&B covers...why? because, in the words of roger murtaugh (aka danny glover of "lethal weapon" fame), "i'm getting too old for this s**t!"